x X ]IFF E ~\ g ‘'l K m l e\ m N /\ /\,K\. ?/’ e ) ¢ @ \\'/ /@"\\\‘;//}'\‘\\\‘:(e@ /= (l-’ > 75TH YEAR CHRISTIANSTED. V.I.U.S. A., MONDAY 26tH APRIL 1920. sincere affection in.a stringer, or make any new ties thatywould be disintested. When voung and beautiful women smile at me, | see behind“them the jewels and and fine gowns I am good for on which their avid eyes are fixed. When young" men hang about my wife, I have a sar- donic vision of the champagne, and op- era boxes, and automobiles, and horzes, and country places. the opvortunities:for flirtacions with younger and prettier vo men that being “in her good graces stands for to them. * “"We alone could mean something to each, other. We alone could be compan- ions, friends, lovers as we go down into the twilight shades of the evening ‘of life. And yet we:it vo, who should be the closest toget}?r, are the farthest apart of any two® creatures on God’s earth. We have not a thought in com- mon, not an aspiration in comtmon, not a a hope in common. “‘I often wonder why, of all the wo- men in the world, I married her. I know she wonders why she married me, and yet when we were married no two people were ever more in love with each other, and this being true, the mar- vel is how we killed love between us. ““Whose fault was it, hers or mine? Mine, 1 think, chiefly. **Yes, dust and ashes is on my head, becauseI _.urdered jlove. I did it, not with one switt blow, but I starved it to death through long arid years of neglect. ‘You see, when I married 1 had just begun to get a foothold en the ladder of success. 1 had just begun to make money, and the madness of that greatest and most absorbing game in the world was upon me. I was crazy for money and more money, and evermove, more money, jand for the sense of power it gave, ,the ability to do big things, to shape events, to be.the little god of the machine that works the strings and makes the things happen whereat men marvel. ALL FOR MONEY. “l gave all of my time, all of my thoughts, all of my interests, all the best of me, to my business. I was away from home much of the time. called hither and thither by enterprizes in which I was in- terested, and when I was at home I was either too absorbed in some new deal to be anything but a money-making autom- aton, or else ] was a wreck of over- wrought nerves and was as cross and surly as a sore-headed ‘bear. - *'l had brought ns .ife from oat of a big family of charming and gay peoble, radde SE. CROIX 'AVIS s printed and pudlished daily (Sundays and Holidays excepted) by G. Johunsen at the Avis Office. TERMS---50 cents monthly 1n advance, . 2 cents per single copy. Katered as second-class matter May 26th 1917 at the Post Office at Christian- gted. St. Crotx, V. LioktheU. S« A., un- der the Act of Mureh 8. 1879. Contribution to this paper will be glad- ly received when the same deals with mat- ters of general interest, and s accompa- * wied with the author’s name, as a quar- antee of good faith. The editor cannot be responstble for the views of his correspon- dents nor does he necessarily endorsethem. IF YOU HAD TO LIVE IT OVER . AGAIN. By Dorothy Dix. “My marriage,’”’ said the third man, ‘““is a failure because there is no compan- ionship between myself and my wife. Our marriage has become the very husks of wedloek. The soul of love, and even of friendship has gone, and nothing is left but the body of the thing from which the spirit has fled. ‘‘Some eynic said not long ago that the chief advantage in being rich was that the wealthy had to see so little of their husbands and wives. They were not thrown so closely together, and did not have to daily rub rasped nerves against rasped nerves, org have their disillusions focussed on each other so continually as the poor do. Hence, they do not have S 0 many unseemly spats. “In this manner*my wife andI dwell in our big house in outward amity and peace. She has her apartment. I mine. Shg has her allowance, paid into her bank; her own automobile; her own in- dependence in every way. Whepr we meet in our own home, or elsewhere, we are suavity and politeness itself to each other, but I often wonder if my wife is as lonely as I am, if the friend- ships of the outside world are as hollow to her as they are to me, if she yearns for the mellow love and companionship that is tried and proven, the love that is interwoven with' the memories and ex- periences of half a lifetime that should be ours. ! BorH GROWING OLD. ““We are bhoth growing old We are past middle age, past the time when either one of us ecan hepe to inspire any No. 9} who were most loving and affection- ate to each other. 1 put her down in a strange city, and left her to her own devices, and felt that I had done my full duty when I gave her a handsome home and plenty of money to spend. I never even thought of such a thing as trying to interest myself in her pursuits, or do- ing anything for her pleasure, or at- tempting to find out what she really thought, and aspired to, what sort of a woman she was deveioping into. ‘I knew vaguely that she went into society. 1 grumbled at having to show up now and then at dinner parties she gave. 1 went with her ocecasionally to the theatre, but mostlyI was too busy to be her companion, and when I did go with herI was too absorbed in my own plans to give her more than a surface attention. “‘So the years went by, and she went one way, and I went another and cur paths grew farther and farther apart, and I, at least, was utterly unconscious of what was happening. [ was cocksure that [ was doing my part as a husband, because we had the finest bouse on the street, and [ gave my wife diamonds at Christmas and automobiles on her birth- dav. AN ANIMATED CHECKBOOK. "I never realized that I had become nothing but an animated checkbook to my wife; that she had forgotten that blood irstead of silver ran in my veins, and that I could feel soma pang that wasn’t caused by a slump in Wall Street. Still less did it occur to me thatin ali her splendor my wife might be starving for a little love, for a little tenderness, for some sign that she was something to her husband besides a stalking horse to show off his money. ““Then one day I woke up to the fact that my wife was as indifferent to me as | was to her; that she had passed in- to another world of new interests with which1 was as unfamiliar as she was with mine, and that we two, who should have had everything in common, had nothing in common. And 1 was deso- late.“IfI had to live my life over again I should devote less time to business and more to my wife. [ should not make wealth the god befor¢ whom I sacrificed, I should bow the knee to love. ‘U should begin, from the very wed- ding day, to try to win my wife’s friend- ship so that when the fires of passion [ Continued on 4th page]